More single men over 50 are open to new connections than you might think. According to Pew Research Center, 28% of Americans aged 50 to 64 are single, and that number rises to 36% for those 65 and older [3]. Many of these men are actively seeking companionship: 61% of single men say they’re currently looking for a relationship or dates [3].
OurTime, the dating site created by Match Group specifically for singles over 50, gives you a direct path to these men. You won’t have to scroll past profiles from twenty-somethings or navigate apps built for a younger crowd. Every member on OurTime is here because they’re ready for this chapter of life, and they’re looking for someone to share it with.
Why OurTime Is Right for YouDating at 50 and beyond comes with a real advantage. An OurTime survey found that 65% of singles over 50 say they have a deeper appreciation for relationships now compared to their twenties, and 63% say they’re pickier about who they date [4]. That clarity is a strength, not a limitation.
OurTime, Dating After 50 Survey
A platform designed for those who know exactly what they want
An active community of women and men over 50, all across the US
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We don’t play games here. Every profile is authentic, every interaction sincere
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How does OurTime help you find the right single man?
OurTime takes the guesswork out of meeting single men by matching you with people who share your values, lifestyle and interests. The platform is simple to use, whether you prefer the website or the mobile app.
You can filter by distance, age, lifestyle preferences and more. If hiking every weekend matters to you, say so. If you’d like someone who values family time or enjoys travel, make it clear. The more specific you are, the better your recommendations become.
We select people for you who share your values and expectations.
Chat at your own pace
Take the time to get to know each other and build a lasting connection.
and join the thousands of people who have found love after 50
What do single men over 50 look for in a partner?
Understanding what men in this age group value can help you feel more confident as you browse. Research consistently shows that men over 50 prioritise companionship, honesty and shared interests above all else.
The top three attributes that matter more to 50+ singles now than in their twenties are health (31%), finances (30%) and outlook on life (29%) [4]. A loving, thoughtful partner ranks among the most desired traits, and a good sense of humour remains important at every age.
Honesty and openness
Men over 50 appreciate directness. They’ve lived enough to value a partner who says what she means.
Shared interests
Walking the dog, visiting new places, cooking together. Concrete activities create real connections.
Emotional warmth
Kindness and empathy matter more than ever at this stage of life.
Independence
A partner who has her own friends, hobbies and sense of self is deeply attractive to mature men.
What if this new chapter began right here? Join thousands of singles over 50 who, like you, are looking for a meaningful relationship.
Sign up for freeHow can you create a profile that single men want to message?
Your profile is your introduction. On OurTime, it’s your chance to show who you are and what makes your life enjoyable.
Photos that feel real
Use recent, clear photos where your face is visible. Natural lighting and genuine smiles work better than posed or heavily filtered images. Include photos that show your interests, whether that’s a garden you’ve been tending, a trip you took recently or an evening out with friends.
A bio that tells your story
Start with what you enjoy doing in your free time. What makes you laugh? What does a good weekend look like for you? Then mention what you’re looking for. If you want a man who’s ready for a real relationship and shares your values, say that. Specific details create real conversations.
Be clear about what matters: If you value someone who prioritises family, or if you’d love a partner who enjoys the outdoors, include it. OurTime’s profiles are designed to help you highlight exactly what makes you, you.
How do you stay safe when meeting single men online?
Safety is something OurTime takes seriously, and so should you. Online dating is a wonderful way to meet people, but it’s important to take a few sensible steps.
OurTime offers profile verification to help reduce fake accounts. Messaging filters flag suspicious content, and you can block or report anyone who makes you uncomfortable. Private Mode lets you browse invisibly, so you’re only visible to people you choose to interact with.
Romance scams are a growing concern for older adults. The FTC’s 2024-2025 report found that fraud losses among adults aged 60 and over reached $2.4 billion in 2024, with romance scams among the most common types [5]. OurTime’s verification and moderation tools are built to help protect you, but it’s wise to stay alert too.
Stay safe online: 4 simple rules
- Keep conversations on OurTime until you’ve built real trust.
- Never share financial details, your home address or workplace information with someone you haven’t met.
- Meet in a public place for your first date, and let a friend or family member know your plans.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is.
What makes a good first date when you’re over 50?
The best first dates are simple, relaxed and low-pressure. A coffee at a local cafe, a walk through a park or a drink at a quiet bar all work well. You don’t need an elaborate plan. You just need a comfortable setting where you can talk and see if there’s a connection.
Skip long dinners for a first meeting. They’re harder to leave gracefully if the chemistry isn’t there. Save those for when you’ve established mutual interest. And remember: online chemistry doesn’t always translate in person. Meeting sooner rather than later helps you find out without investing weeks in messaging.
OurTime connects you with single men near your city, so you don’t have to travel far. Adjust your distance settings based on how far you’re comfortable going for a date.
[1] TheSeniorList, “Why Are Only 1 in 3 Older Singles Open to Dating?”, survey of 1,232 unmarried adults aged 50+, November 2024.
[2] Pew Research Center, “Dating at 50 and Up: Older Americans’ Experiences With Online Dating”, July 2023.
[3] Pew Research Center, “A Profile of Single Americans”, August 2022.
[4] OurTime, “Dating After 50 Survey”, conducted by OurTime (Match Group).
[5] Federal Trade Commission, “Protecting Older Consumers 2024-2025”, December 2025.
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