A little about me...

This is weird, writing a sales ad for yourself.... ugh. I am divorced after a very long marriage. I am not thrilled to be online trying to do this, but my life does not bring very many new people across my path so here I am. I love my job and don't mind working hard. I have Auburn hair, its not really red, and my 2 "children" are about to be 20 and 22. One lives at home the other is home when he is not at college. I like to do things... simple, challenging, peaceful... almost doesn't matter. I am as content to take a walk as I am to take a vacation. I have been on the go most of my life and I just like to feel like I have something to do... I am well educated, people tell me I am funny. I try to see the humor in the things that would otherwise cause me stress. I am usually easy going. I think its hard to write these, I am not sure how you pick and choose words to describe yourself. I think you just have to meet and see what happens. This seems silly, these all end up sounding pretty much the same anyways. I like flying stunt kites, there, that's probably different.

About the one I'm looking for...

This part isn't much easier... kind of depends on the person. I am not into playing head games. I need to have you care about my comfort level and safety. I was in my 20s when I last really dated and this is all very weird for me, so you will need to understand that and go at my pace. Be who you really are.... the real person inside of each of us will come out eventually, so why not start there.... I like a guy who is mature and responsible, but who know how to have fun. I like to have doors opened for me, but I really don't expect a lot of flowers that are going to die anyways or things like that... be sincere, kind, honest and fun to be around.... I am pretty flexible, but don't really know how to define who you are supposed to be.... Guess we will just have to give it a shot and see how things turn out....

I'd just like to add...

I suppose I am really looking for a long term relationship, at least eventually. But I would like to make some friends and have some fun along the way. I am ok with messages and texts for a while, but I do agree it is important to meet at some point. Although online conversation is preferred to more Netflicks, I am tired of feeling like all I do is work and take care of my home. I want to enjoy the summer! If this potentially lame profile sparks any interest in you at all, send me a message and see where it goes.

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Q. Describe four of your main goals in life.

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